From the Metroplitan News:
In re
Marriage of Manfer, G037269.
The date of a couple’s
legal separation is determined using a subjective intent rather than a public
perception standard, the Fourth District Court of Appeal has ruled.
Div. Three on Thursday
reversed an order by retired San Diego Superior Court Judge Thomas R. Murphy,
sitting by assignment in Orange Superior Court, who deferred a privately
separated couple’s legal separation date based on an “objective test.”
Murphy’s focus on the
couple’s public persona was misdirected, the court held, because the question
was what the parties’ subjective intent was and not what society at large would
have perceived.
The couple, Samuel and
Maureen Manfer, wed in 1973 and broke marital ties with each other following a
quarrel shortly after their 31st wedding anniversary. The split was mutual, he
moving out of the family residence and into a previously leased apartment, and
she resolving that the marriage was over.
Out of concern for their
three daughters, however, the two agreed to hide their split from family and
friends until after the year-end holidays passed. Although they did not have
sexual relations with each other, commingle their funds or support each other
in the interim, they kept up appearances by engaging in sporadic social
contacts and taking trips together occasionally.
They finally told their
daughters and friends in early 2005 that they were not living together.
The husband filed for
divorce in April alleging a March 15, 2005 date of separation, and the wife
contended the separation date had been nine months earlier on July 1, 2004.
After a two-day hearing,
Murphy concluded “the [parties’] private conduct evidence a final and complete
break in their marital relationship in June of 2004,” but set the date of
separation as March 15 based expressly on an “outsider’s viewpoint” standard.
The wife, whose annual
income of over $1 million made the parties’ incomes significantly disparate,
appealed the characterization of the property as community property during the
disputed period. With the earlier separation date, she would be entitled to
keep potentially several thousands of dollars that would otherwise go to the
community.
Relying on In re
Marriage of Baragry (1977) 73 Cal.App.3d 444, the husband argued that the
couple did not officially part ways until after their rift became public.
In Baragry, the
husband had moved out of the family residence, into an apartment with his
girlfriend, and split time between her and his wife for four years before
filing for divorce.
Though he did not sleep
at the family residence, he ate dinner at home with his wife almost every night
and otherwise openly maintained continuous and frequent contacts with his wife
and children. He preserved the façade of marriage by, among other charades,
continuing to file joint income taxes. She continued to perform domestic
services for him.
The court rejected the
husband’s attempt to set the separation date on the day he moved in with his
girlfriend.
Justice Raymond J.
Ikola, writing for the Court of Appeal, said Baragry bore no resemblance
to the Manfers’ case:
“Samuel and Maureen
essentially disentangled their lives in all respects, save occasional social
engagements, to carry out their mutual agreement to keep their separation
secret so as not to spoil the holidays for their daughters and friends, whereas
in Baragry, wife, unaware of her husband’s decision never to return, dutifully
did his laundry and cooked his meals for four years! Enough said.”
Murphy had placed a
single-minded and speculative concern on how things might have looked to outsiders,
the justice wrote.
“There was no evidence
at all on the issue of what an outsider might have believed, and we could as
easily speculate that all of the couple’s friends and family knew they were
witnessing a charade when the couple interacted on social occasions and trips,
but were too polite or embarrassed to bring up the subject preemptively,” he
noted.
On remand, Ikola said,
the trial judge must pick a specific date based on the record that could be as
early as the July 1, 2004 date alleged by Maureen Manfer.